Hello friends!
I feel like I’m making a confession today.
You see, these days I craft and sew for 18 inch dolls like American Girl dolls but it wasn’t always so. In fact, at one time I was against American Girl dolls and didn’t want my daughter to have one.
*Gasp* I know, I know kinda extreme, but it’s true. I actually went from one side of the fence to the other and I want to tell you why and how I made that journey.
When my daughter was about 6 years old, American Girl catalogs started showing up in the mail. The catalogs, just like the ones today, were full of beautiful dolls, clothing and accessories that were perfectly detailed and scaled for their mini world.
Those catalogs went straight from the mailbox to the trashcan.
Nope, I didn’t want my 6 year old daughter to see them.
A Change in Perspective
I had a happy content little 6 year old.
We didn’t buy expensive toys for our kids so the expensive dolls seemed over the top to me.
Thumbing through the catalog of beautiful (and expensive) dolls, clothing and accessories I wondered how it would effect my 6 year old daughter.
Would her contentment change to wanting and envy?
This was 8 years ago and I didn’t know anything about the 18 inch doll world. I didn’t know there were other brands of 18 inch dolls at different prices and different qualities.
My first impression of 18 inch dolls was the American Girl catalog. Would these expensive toys have a negative affect on my daughter?
A change in perspective started with education.
For the Love of Learning
We homeschooled for 5 years when the kids were young. Aside from reading, writing and arithmetic we participated in group classes with other homeschoolers.
These group classes were hands-on and a lot of fun for the kids. One year we divided the group and held an all-girls class. We crafted and cooked from historical periods using the American Girl Craft Books and Cook Books.
I soon discovered I loved these wonderful books that coordinated with time periods we studied in history. (You can still find them on Amazon and your local libraries may even carry them!) We loved tying history into doll play with the girls!
As a mother I saw the power of learning through play. We created, we played and we learned all along the way!
So from the mom that opposed American Girl I came to appreciate 18 inch dolls for education, creativity and play.
Enjoying it Together
My daughter’s first 18 inch doll was a Gotz Precious Day, Elizabeth, renamed Emily. I was so excited to find this quality doll, discounted at Tuesday Morning, for her birthday. The following year, when she was 8, grandma gave her an American Girl doll.
She loved all of her dolls, played with them, sewed for them, crafted for them and poured over the magazines for creative inspiration, NOT wanting and envy, as I once worried would happen.
These dolls were far from trophies, they were collectibles that my daughter loved and cherished, fostering play, creativity and learning. The best part is that we enjoyed creating and learning together.
Finding my Spark
I am a maker at heart. I have a passion for creating and have dabbled in all types of crafting and creating as long as I can remember.
One of our family traditions is a few homemade gifts for Christmas and birthdays.
With my daughters new found love for dolls I made special things on holidays to add to her doll collection. She loved the homemade creations and I discovered my own spark for doll size crafting and creating.
Standing Behind Play and Creativity
Fast forward to today, and here I am creating doll crafts and sewing patterns to share with you. Over the course of blogging these past 3 years I have come to respect and love the doll community.
It’s been a wonderful journey. I know what’s at the heart of what I love about 18 inch dolls. It is encouraging play and creativity and that is something I can stand behind!
Creating doll size crafts to inspire creativity and play!
Creating sewing patterns and easy to follow tutorials.
A personal favorite, making doll clothes from girl’s clothes!
It’s Where Your Heart Is
And do you know what has come full circle for me? That I understand a little more about selfishness and envy. At first I didn’t want my daughter to have a doll that was expensive because in a way it symbolized selfishness. I realized that our experience with dolls was valuable and enriching because it promoted creating, play, learning and opportunities to bond.
What of selfishness, greed and envy? They can exist in anything. It is where your heart is and where you want to go. These are important lessons to learn.
I missed it at first but now I see so much potential and good in dolls. Something as simple as creativity and play can bring us all a little closer and that is what makes life richer!
It is with a great leap of courage I share a little of my story! The passion behind creating crafts and sewing projects for dolls to share with you has always been rooted in these experience. It was about time I shared my story with you!
Thank you, I appreciate you for reading, commenting, and encouraging me! I have a little spark of creativity that I want to share with you, let’s keep creating, sewing and playing with dolls!
-Anna
Brandy Boyd says
Loved this article! You rock!
Anna says
Thanks Brandy!
Jen @ Dollsbetweenus says
My own story is very similar–those catalogs were recycled before they even made it into the house! When we started reading the historical fiction, we fell for Josefina. For me, AG is about the stories and characters. You can read more about us and our AG journey on our “About” page.
Anna says
Thanks for sharing Jen! It’s amazing how the stories and characters can enrich play, imagination and learning! Love it!
Farrah Lily says
Lovely post, Anna! Your kids are so cute…it’s always fun to see sneak peeks into bloggers “real life”. 🙂 I totally agree with you about the AG thing. We were never able to afford them growing up so I always kind of had a bad taste in my mouth about them just out of jealousy I think. Then, as an adult, I would even roll my eyes at parents that would spend so much money on them for their kids as it just didn’t seem right.
Now that I have realized my love for dolls as an adult and have begun collecting, , I have seen what a positive impact they really can have. Like you said, the stories are great and I loved reading the books when I was young. I love the idea of the cookbooks to learn more about that particular time period!! You as well as many others have such great craft and sewing ideas that also make it so exciting.
I see so many blogs written by teenage girls allowing them to write, create and expand their photography skills as well as connect with other girls in a positive light, which I think is just brilliant.
My oldest just turned 6 and she doesn’t really show “enough” interest in 18 in dolls yet (more into 12 inch) so I’ve held off, but she loves looking at the few AGs I’ve collected and we’ve started borrowing the AG books from the library (she loves Samantha!) If the day comes when she’s a little older, has a true interest and can appreciate the value, we will definitely be taking a trip to NYC to the AG store just for the cool experience of it all and to pick out a doll of her own.
Awesome post! Happy Friday!! 🙂
Anna says
Farrah, Yes, I love seeing the positive impact! I’m so glad that you brought up the writing and photography, that definitely encourages and expands creativity!
I was thinking more about it and the reason dolls became more than just another toy at our house is because they brought the creativity and play together. Kids love to craft (ok many adult do to, including me!), so we enjoy the creative process while making something for dolls and when we are done we have something fun to expand play. They go together and make the experience richer!
That is so fun you are enjoying reading the AG books with your daughter. That’s what it’s all about, spending time together! Doll play is enriching and fun, no matter the size or brand. The stories, the crafting and play can be enjoyed in the same way for all!
I think it is good to wait for the right time to get an AG doll. Yes, their interest is important to value, and appreciate it and be ready to care for the dolls. I bet your daughter loves and enjoys your collection and will enjoy dolls with you for years to come!
Thanks Farrah for continuing the conversation! I love your thought process and depth! I loved the points that you made and that you shared your experience!:)
Shannon says
I’m a twelve year old blogger. I started blogging at age 10 1/2. I agree with you Farrah, I want to be a writer and I love photography and my blog has helped me express what I love about dolls through another thing I love, writing. I don’t know if my mom was hiding the magazines, but if she was I feel sorry that my friend showed me the american girl website, because once I saw it, I could never pull my eyes away. I wanted a doll so bad that my mom finally bought one for my birthday. I think people should not be afraid of something like this. I sew, craft, and show creativity through my dolls.
Anna says
Shannon, Thanks for sharing your experience! I love the way you can combine your love for photography, writing and dolls. That’s exactly what I came to love about dolls, there are so many ways to express creativity!
Mandy Wildman says
Lovely article. I had the same kind of epiphany myself – about recycling discarded dolls (of all kinds, but mostly Cabbage Patch dolls as of this writing). Why are all these dolls being thrown in the landfill? I thought as I pawed through them at thrift stores. That passion has turned into a project – the LoveAgain Doll Project. We upcycle mistreated dolls and donate them as therapy dolls to women in shelters and nursing homes. If you are interested, you can find out more info here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/loveagaindolls/
Thank you for your inspiration! Mandy Wildman